Asian Buffet

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I do not write about sexual experiences in detail as I believe that it is indecent to the person who joined me in the act. However in this particular case the lady who joined me in the event has not only given me permission, but she has asked me to write about it. Here you all go,
Enjoy.

Supper time it was, and where better to go then, Treasures of China? Nowhere, and so we hopped in my car to go grab some food. The whole entire drive consisted of nothing but us touching one another and ridiculous amounts of laughter. This continued for forty-five minutes, in the end we made it.

We got out of the car and together began walking to the front door, where the sign read "Asian Buffet", I reacted by saying "O for fuck sakes they always tear down the good restaurants". Piss on it we are going in anyways and so that is what we did. Review, food was good but not near as good as Treasures, blowjob, well that made up for the loss of quality in the food.

We sat down at our table and the waiter came buy and asked what we would like to drink, a water and an iced tea joined us with our meal. She had never been there before so I grabbed her by the hand and said "lets go", buffets rule. At the start I shared a bit with her and tried to get her to try some good new things, but those skinny girls they get full real quick. And so while I ate plate after plate, we discussed a million different things including the stench of some of the old people who sat down near the end of our meal. Fuck me they stunk, like bad ass. "We gotta get outta here, bathroom" I said softly to her and she looked and me and shook her head "Oh Jesse".


I grabbed her by the hand and she is just shaking her head repeatedly. I lead her to the ice cream portion of the buffet. Yummy, there are ten different flavors, with the highest ranking being mint chocolate chip and cookie dough. We grab a bowl of each flavor, as we agreed that these two were the best flavors out of the bunch. At the table we sat eating the ice cream where we were disappointed that the cookie dough was actually a trick and turned out to be Oreo. As she licked the mint chocolate chip off of her spoon I said "You look extra good when you are licking". She just laughed and smiled as we proceeded to eat our ice cream. As we sat there eating she looked at me and said "No" and I quickly responded with "what are you talking about Lil Missy?". There was a long silent pause and a blush accompanied her face as she replied "You know exactly what I am talking about". I smiled and looked at her with a couple second glaze when I said "If I knew what you were talking about why would I be asking?". All she could do is shake her head at me and look into my eyes, we both knew it was going to happen, when I want something I always get it, and anyone who has ever known me to the slightest degree knows this. Although I have to admit the way she tried to play it off like it was not going to happen just made it way hotter.

We finished eating our ice cream, time to make up for the loss of the quality in the food. "Lets go" and I grab her hand and lead her to the bathroom. I look inside and there is no one, perfect, "come on" and she grabs my hand leading her into the furthest stall. I want to make it as dangerous as possible, higher chance of getting caught, greater turn on, everyone knows this. There is no time for gentle kisses or even to play around, hearts are beating, she knows this is crazy and what she is doing should be wrong. And just like most of them, she goes crazy pulling down my pants and resting on her knees.

She looks up at me and repeats her previous statement "Oh Jesse" and takes my cock into her mouth. After a couple minutes I tell her to hand me my video camera but to my dismay the batteries are dead, GAYNESS. She is going at it real hard when the first opportunity comes in. Opportunity for her to get caught, the bathroom door opens and I look at her face and she lights up getting more turned on due to the risk. And so I decide with her loving the risk lets add to it, I pull my dick out of her mouth and start smacking her across the face until the bathroom door opens and he is gone. She just gives me this look, that look of pure arousal, and takes me back into her mouth.

Ten minutes later the second opportunity presents itself, now how could I top the previous one. The bathroom door opens again and this time the feller gets into the stall right beside of us. I grab her gorgeous lock of hair and start thrusting in her mouth over and over she gags repeatedly. This consists for the next five or so minutes until the bathroom door opens once more and she slows down to catch her breath. "Well that was close" I say and she just shakes her head as she throws her lips around my dick once again.

Third time is the charm right? The loud bathroom door violently swings open once more, and she looks up with a smile and continues with her work in progress, me. I am almost done, now is the perfect time I can make it even more dangerous. I grab her luscious hair once more and the gagging joins the party once more, until I explode in her mouth. She swallows every last drop and right after gasps for air, joined by a seductive little giggle. The bathroom door opens and the third listener is gone.

She still had to make it out of the bathroom without getting caught, with her blushing to the point of no return, we walk out of the stall with me leading her by my hand. I open the door and look outside, to make sure no one is walking in.After a quick glance I softly say "What you waiting for" and she walks out. We are off to pay the bill.

The moral of the story is as follows:

Chinese food..............

Good.

Chinese food with a hotty..........

Excellent.

Chinese food
with a hotty and
a blowjob in
the bathroom

PRICELESS

Fuck 'Em, If They Can't Take a Joke.

Fuck it, article after article, lets change it up, and have some fun, how about that? Too damn bad that question was rhetorical so get ready for a story. Possibly even what some of you all may call an absolutely-repulsive adventure. This crazy day in my life occurred at date in my life and has been posted for your own personal enjoyment!

Life has been doing fucking awesome; I have been busier than shit: and that is the way it should be. Personally this is the way to get anywhere while I have not been able to get as much teaching done as I want; I have been working on important pieces of my life every day.

Alright so the night starts off insane; meet a close friend at a pub and have a meal with him; discussing life and our dreams. Thanks for your wisdom it always comes in handy. End up discussing the possibility of going to Moscow and it looks like it will end up happening sweet.

Get a text from Ea few of the boys and they are not joining me, shit I really do not feel like going out, they were my motivation. Well this is my only chance for the rest of the week. Guess i am going solo. Kool!

Get to the roadhouse, run in to a few gentlemen.........

Start out by talking to sets that I have met earlier as they have opened me.

Next I am off to the shooter girls go and chat them all up. Love them, they are so much fun and a great way to start the night.

Dance floor here I come as i have mutual friends on the floor.

I cannot remember who said it but someone somewhere said " You only need one set"

And that is the way she went.

Standing with three gentlemen when a friend of this smoking hottie tries to walk through; I open and am talking to this friend for the next ten minutes.

S> What, you want through?
O> Ya
S> Well it aint happening
O> Ya it is
S> You got an accent, where you from?
O> L.A.
S> Sick that is such a beautiful place to live.I love it there.
O> I know right
S> Definitely, so what you doing done here?
O> Came to visit my friend
S> Sweet, how do you two know each other?
O> We lived together for three years
S> kool, so what are you celebrating
O> Visiting her
S> Well she must be kool if a person like you comes down to see her
O> Actually it is funny she pointed you out and said that you were hot
S> Well I guess it's a good thing I said Hi
O> Ya
S> So you are?
O> Mariah
S> kool I am Jesse
O> Nice to meet you
S> pleasures all mine
O> Aw
S> And your friend is?
O> This is Nicole
We Shake hands
S> Hey I am Jesse
N> I am Nicole
S> So I heard you pointed me out
N> Sure did
S> Everyone does, I kinda stand out and it's sexy
N> Wow cocky
S> Nope, just realistic, I know who I am and what I deserve

Obstacle interrupts

O> I am going for a drink you stay here with this guy, he's cool
N> Wow you must be doing something right she normally hates guys I like after the first 2 minutes
S> Ya that's just how I do you either love me or really love me
N> Possible we will have to wait and see
S> sure sure whatever you say, alright we are going to sit
N> I hate sitting
S> that's kool well I will sit and you will be beside me she follows

Obstacle rejoins us

O> Did she tell you she is from Saskatchewan?
S> No, (I turn to N) , I am terribly sorry
N> Ha ha whatever

Obstacle sees a friend and goes running off

S> So much energy I dig that
N> As do I
S> So why you in Calgary?
N> For work
S> What you do?
N> Ah I don't normally tell guys that
S> And why not?
N> They run
S> I am not them
N> sure sure
S> Listen I don't normally tell people what I do either, so you are going to tell me and I will tell you; we shall call it a trade

Obstacle reappears

N>Should I tell him what I do?
O> Why not, let it out
N> Look my boots should let you know so guess

I look at these four inch high heels and think to myself, sweet a stripper; they are fun and flexible.

S> Look I am not guessing so tell me
N> I work on stroll

Sick not a stripper but a hooker; I love new experiences!

S> I teach men how to talk to women; socialize; and be themselves
O> Are you serious they have that here
S> Yes that is where I come in
N> So you are like hitch
S> Ya except for I am not Will Smith and I am not fake
N> I see
S> So why was I supposed to run?
N> Well it's not normal for a guy to like what I do
S> Well I am confident that I can handle it plus it happens have you not seen TRUE Romance?
N> No
O> Ya True Romance is totally about that
S> Cancer time

Exit for a smoke only N follows

Here we smoke then I grab her and start making out...

Finish smokes and we are off to grab O...

Grab O.... and we are taking pictures in a photo booth, N and I walk in to the booth

S> O get your ass in here you are part of this
O> k

Fifteen sexy pictures later and we are off for another smoke

This is where I actually get myself into a bit of trouble.....

A friend Ms.W comes to say hi and say that the girl I am with is gorgeous and so I got to introduce her to O but forget her name; they meet each other anyways.
After Ms.W leaves...

O> You don't remember my name?
S> No
O> How bout my friend?
S> Nicole

And O goes storming off..... After talking with a friend N joins me

N> Where did O go?
S> She is pissed
N> Why ?
S>I forgot her name
N> I better go find her
S> Hold up I am almost done

Make out...

We go find O and I try to say sorry and she is having none of it

S> Alright well fuck it I tried she wants attention and will not even realize that you gave me your name three times and she only said hers once; if she wants to be stubborn I am not playing around. I'll be on the floor
N> K just give me a minute and when I got her cooled off I will be there

Start dancing when my ass is being grabbed there she is....Dance and make out and now its like one thirty....

S> Gonna go have a break

Head to bathroom, It is late alright well you invested this much; lay it on the line.... Walk up and grab her

S> I am going
N> I cannot leave O
S>I am gonna go I will give you two a ride if you want
N> Talks with O

WE are off....

Now I thought that forgetting her name was going to fuck me right over but it actually helped me so much.When we got to their place she went straight to her room.YAY! For forgetfulness!

N and I start fooling around hot and heavy when she says...

"Have you seen my bedroom?"



And from here on in it would be indecent of me to give you more details. The point gentlemen is never give up even though minor bumps may occur during your ride, sometimes, most of the time they work in your favor. Stay calm, kool, and collected and remember that you control the outcomes of your interaction. I do not ask for you to have faith in any method, or religion, but have faith in yourself, and the skills that you have.

Prerequisites to a P.B.

This is the second part to a blog entitled "P.B. Versus The "One"; I would recommend giving it a read before reading this but hey maybe just for fun you feel like doing it ass backwards; enjoy.

A pair bonding is an equilibrium of one another; it is both partners being able to be their complete self without worries, without even the slightest amount of doubt; the two of them know that they can tell each other anything. Not only this though; they support each other to the point of no return; none of this talking garbage; these two are willing to do anything to help the other; and asking for help is unnecessary; it is not needed. The partner just knows from the actions of his (or her) significant other. It is more than just a balance and a supporting system though, in a proper pair bonding the opposing sex challenges you to be a better you. Anytime he or she does anything they are more confident; more focused; and willing to challenge themselves to the utmost extent as they know their decisions will be supported and respected. Kind of like how any person in sports or music has their "time" during a proper pair bonding it is both of the individuals involved "time"; their auras just shine, lighting the world.


How does one get there?


It was not a lengthy duration ago when an extremely close friend of mine and I got into this intense conversation. At the beginning it was more of a comparison of one individual's relationship in relation to another person's relationship. Soon hereafter though we got into the deeper meaning of questions as to how a Pair bonding can work properly and what was needed prior to involving one's self into the realm of a serious relationship. Without the following things no relationship will work properly as you will make your partner resent you or will end up being a completely different person somewhere in the relationship. That is the most common issue when it comes to a long term relationship one day both partners involved; wake up wondering:

What happened?


What happened to the love we had why are we always arguing?


Where did the person I met go?



Young adolescents get into relationships so quickly and here they feel so enthralled with one and another. Next thing you know both parties are dropping the "L" word and telling everyone how they are not like other couples; these two are special; indestructible. Bullshit! Their relationship goes down the tube quicker than the little pigs house that was built out of straw; one huff and one puff and that is it all gone; poof; invisible. All that they had never mattered but they made it a big deal.

Almost everyone is afraid to end up alone, in a constant position of solitude and confinement, which includes having no one to make them laugh and smile when the times get rough. That is why they get into situations of settling where they know that they are not happy yet the relationship is both comfortable enough and works well enough to keep both people from running or finding something better.

Our whole day and age is all about comfort and luxuries.

This is why experience is a necessity to any individual prior to a solid working relationship of happiness and joy. Every person's failed efforts of love and relationships makes them better. They can analyze and learn what made this negative outcome occur and stop it from repeating itself.A man is mistreated and emotionally abused to the point where he snaps and disregards the women of whom he was in a relationship with and so he now knows not to let another relationship get to that point. A women is loving and caring, her boyfriend is unfaithful and promises he will never do it again and yet he destroys her trust and her heart once more; she now knows what can happen if she stays with someone who has cheated. Without the prior influence of relationships the person or persons involved will do the previous listed examples of making it something it is not and drifting through. The experience of relationships is needed for an even bigger reason though, an individual's identity. As James Joyce says;

" A man of genius makes no mistakes; his errors are volitional and are the portals of discovery. "

IDENTITY

Identity is a very important and significant part of a person, and this holds true even more so in a relationship; if one - or both - people involved in a relationship do not know who he or she is then how can that couple know where they are going if individually speaking one or both parties is/are lost? Only when both individuals have character and identity due to prior experiences in life will their connection bridge to happiness and be able to support the weight of burdens, due to up and coming challenges. Before a relationship will even be successful the participating individuals must be able to live and enjoy life on their own. Before a person could ever even evaluate or think about diving into a relationship he or she would not only have to know who they are but want they want. There are couples who date for six or seven years and then are dismantled as only one of the two of them wishes to bring a newborn child into this world. Every person before settling down should be able to describe their partner and how she (or he) would look, act, react during different situations and her (or his) morals, beliefs, and even her (or her) *freak level(definition below). Writing the above information down is an extremely great exercise for any person to go through, as good as life goals, or maybe even better. As it is stated many times in many places we all look for someone; it is natural; might as well know what we want.



The actual question that ignited this whole conversation was "So should everyone have crazy sex stories before settling down?". In a short answer I looked at him and said "O FUCK YA (OFY)", but he would not let me just leave it at that as he quickly responded with "Really, how do you figure?". Are you kidding if a person has not tried everything he or she wanted to do he or she is still going to want to do it in a relationship. That person may bring it up leading to a resentment on one, if not both sides as one participant could resent the fact that the other would even ask of such a thing, while the other would resent due to not being able to enjoy on his or her sexual adventures. This sometimes leads to even worse pieces in relationships, such as: cheating; phone sex; strippers; hookers and more crazy things that will be the demise of the relationship. That is why I answered O fuck ya as both parties better enjoy their retarded nights of irresponsibility where they could try anything they wanted prior to a serious relationship; thus leaving temptation and resentment out of the way. Also it is another platform building on Identity.


Really to close it all down both people involved in the relationship need to know who they are, what they want to achieve in their life, and what they want and expect from their significant other. Each individual needs to have had enough experience to know how to handle different situations so that the relationship could work. Yet at the same time both individuals need to have seen enough and witnessed the actions of others to know when the relationship is going down a path that will end up hurting him or her. Really to have a pair bonding work you need to be able to live without it, and know that you could do without the relationship, but as of right now you do so as you enjoy it and it makes you happy. It is a decision that the participants make! They didn't just settle and if shit hit the fan; they would drop the dirty fan and wait for a new fan.

One word: IDENTITY. A person must know what he or she wants; what he or she will and wont accept; what morals are needed in their relationship. Identity is gained through experience socially; educationally; and OFY sexually! Until a person can reach harmony with who they are they are lost. If one is lost then joining with another is pointless.

THE Saint's definition-*Freak level:
The amount of kinkiness
in a women;how
big of a freak
she is.

Honestly,Seriously, Truthfully, Really?

Holy fucking Christ I cannot believe how insane some people are it is unreal. What the hell am I talking about this time? Ladies and gentlemen, let me inform you; goodhearted -versus getting walked all over a.k.a. -> Abuse;to treat in a harmful, injurious, or offensive way; including other individuals and ones-self.

I could give you a thousand different reasons as to the contrasts between a kindhearted person and someone being completely unrealistic; which ends in someone's excruciating pain, and, or in the steady supply of unnecessary stress.At this point l do not believe that this would be helpful and instead I shall be using the three examples that are standing out like an elephant walking through a shopping center. Trust me it shoots out at you to the point of no return; you may try to ignore it, but the more you hide the easier it eats at you as if it were a cannibal eating his final meal.

PROOF 1

Sweet; a gal I know is having her crazy needy friend come over. Well better she deal with it than I; neediness is so unattractive especially when it is to the point where restraining orders should probably be involved. She is sneaking in miss needy in her dorm where one of there rules is; no sleepover guests. Yet to help her supposed friend out she is going to hide her out there until she heads back which is at least a month. How does miss needy repay the genuine gesture and hospitality of my close friend; she tells her that she is bringing a guy and he is staying too. She lets this slide and does not even speak out or state that it is unacceptable. Even though there is a huge possibility that as a consequence to miss needy's actions that she may be evicted from her only living space.Good friend or nothing but a user?

PROOF 2

Example two is a novel involving an extremely wise and mature young man; with whom I have been lucky enough to work with as well as confide in as a trustful friend.Einstein's story is definitely an entertaining one ; his ex-girlfriend lends his mom and family money, and so he decides he owes her everything that is his.And so it happens she asks to move in with him into his bachelor suite; which normally consists of one room where your bed goes; there is the tiniest version of a kitchen ever possible and a small door that leads to a bathroom tucked away in the corner. Now, to me l wouldn't even want a roommate in this type of living situation and yet he was thinking not only of a girlie; but instead considering having his ex-girlfriend, stay there. Not for a night or even a week but half of a year, that's one- hundred and eighty two days. Are you kidding? Einstein makes his decision and confirms that he definitely will take her in.

Four o'clock in the morning and I am driving my dead tired ass over to his place; I am going to put this insane idea to a complete halt. I have my mission I am a mercenary I will sacrifice all of my time until this beautiful mind understands my point of view and perception that hopefully leads to his revelation. Also known as an epiphany: Bad fucking idea stop now. Four and a half hours later he and I have discussed this topic and every other topic underneath the sun until we were blue in the face I had done it. I had won he had realized that although she had done a good thing for his family that did not mean that he had to nor did it even partially justify his thought process of letting her stay with him and turn his reality upside down. To be one hundred percent serious though I did not win I just explained intensely and thoroughly that there were more sufficient ways in which he could still help her that would not make him sacrifice everything that he had learned and gained since the ending of their prior relationship. For example one of the new options that I had pushed as a more reasonable and ideal possibility was to help her find a place to stay with a friend or acquaintance of his.

PROOF 3

On the other side of the spectrum yes you got it stay on topic; women. Actually one in-particular; definitely another close friend of mine and once again someone I am content to say is in my life but sometimes she is; lets say; silly. I do not know her ex-boyfriend and as a well diverse man I choose not to pass judgment on anyone until I have witnessed it firsthand and more than once but also I would not sink down to the childish level to bash anyone; no time for that garbage. However everything I have heard from my friend has painted a dark disgusting and depressing picture of a person who uses, abuses, and actually enjoys hurting others.

This brilliant woman put herself through years of his torture; accepting his apologies repeatedly over and over believing that their love was well-worth it and that the pain she endured would make them stronger. Incorrect this great amazing character of a man dumped her when she had to move to her dream school. His girl was doing exceptionally well and had her greatest fantasies coming true and so he decides he has to throw her out like a bag of trash. Over the course of the next two years her ex abused her in more ways than I even feel like exposing everyone to. Absolutely repulsive. And yet she still had the psychotic idea to send him a text saying "How are you?".

Come on now you have gotta be fucking joking!

This is the same guy that has fucked her over left right and center; has mistreated her and crushed her heart into a million tiny pieces. How does this make sense? IT DOES NOT AT ALL. Her reasoning was just to see how he was doing; who the fuck cares? Why is it that she believes that she should still care and worry when he never even emotionally cared for her? Or if he did his actions and the way he presented himself in relation to her did not prove this true. She cares just as the above two examples were confident that this was part of being a good person.

There is a Line where a good person ends and the above examples are so far past it; two completely different galaxies.

There is a difference between being a kindhearted person or being in this other realm where a person lets themself sacrifice intolerable items, effort, time; for a false purpose. This is not a good person; a kind hearted person gives to the people who deserve it and does not waste his or her time with the people who are unappreciative or undeserving of his or her heart and feelings. For example one good hearted person may volunteer at a homeless shelter serving food and that person may get to know some of the homeless people but when one ends up killing someone for money this person does not go to see how they are doing in jail; as this person is NOT WORTH THEIR TIME. And as a kindhearted person he or she does not wish to invest on a lost cause as this person knows that there are many people out there that need love.

There are many ways a person will know when they have past this line or are even about to trek through this territory. Right of the bat the individual will have feelings of awkwardness and axiousness as they go too far. Next they will either be told from the people who genuinely and sincerely care for them that what they are doing is ridiculous or the person will just automatically conceal the fact that he or she is going through with the next operations and actions.


In the end it comes down to one question; in which you must remove your personal biases and feelings; walk a mile in the audience's shoes; how would you feel if your *sister*(*insert anyone you love with all your heart and who will fit into the situation that you are in) decided to follow through with what you are doing after she had been through the past that you had with that person?

And hopefully after you have asked yourself this question; honestly, seriously, and truthfully, you will see unimpeded, unobstructed, and
CRYSTAL CLEAR.

Also remember you can only be as good as the worst people around you. Your family and friends and even acquaintances can bring you up or be your downward spiral. You are in control and you get to choose who joins your life and for how long; so choose wisely. Do not let others walk all over you it is hard for people to see and even harder on yourself.


Chow,



Jesse

L.Y.A.

Love you, all.

In a world where most people are looking for their next instant gratification it can be hard to find time for one`s-self. As well as appreciation for the things that actually matter family, friends, and health. As a man raised in Canada who has seen all of North America I have witnessed this first hand a million times. People rushing into things whether it be buying a movie or video game or to the more severe side of the spectrum. Like a girl getting branded with her boyfriend`s initials or even further into an extreme point of intensity as a couple gets married drunk and disorderly in Vegas.

I could sit here and write a thousand different ways in which our society is always demanding the next "Thing" to bring them that instant joy (Social-networking sites, Dating sites, Fast-food restaurants, Job-sites, and last but definitely not least how about the entertaining late night infomercials?) . Instead of wasting my time talking about what everyone else is doing I am going to focus on the people important to myself and me; as an individual.

STORY TIME

Just a short while ago a friend of mine and I were talking about this in a lot more detail. She was explaining that even for her as a women how she hated Valentines Day. She went on to explain that it was due to the fact that it was a day where you supposed to do something for someone; instead of doing it as you wanted to. Why should loved ones or partners be assigned when and how to show their appreciation?

While I meshed with her thought process in some ways when I tried to explain that Valentines Day was no different than any of the other holidays it was interesting to see how or ideologies varied. While she only believed that Valentines Day was a unnecessary holiday; I argued that Mother's Day, Father's Day, and Family Day were also unreal; as you should show your love and appreciation for these people not yearly, not even weekly, but DAILY!

And this was the same reason that I personally will never get married (Does this mean I will never settle down? NO). So many things are taken for granted that it is absolutely ridiculous and with the outs (divorce, separation, prenuptial) set up there is no consequence to a person's actions. Why do I need a piece of paper or some specific day to show appreciation for the people I care for?

I DON'T. FUCK THAT. I APPRECIATE THEM DAILY!

With that being said the following people KNOW that I appreciate and love them to the point of no return; but I am proud to make it public. These are the people who have helped make me; ME!

• My Grandmother and Grandfather (Thank you for being the saints you are)

• My Brother (You crazy bastard, all the good stories we have and more to come)

• My Sister (The optimism and innocence you have rules)

• My Step-Dad (For the long discussions we have had about everything and anything)
  

• My Father& My Mother (Without you two I would not exist)

• My Friends (From the ones that are gone to the ones still in my life today you all rock)

• Ladies (Each one of you was beautiful and I am thankful for the experiences we shared)

There are so many events in my life that I appreciate whether they were positive or hardships that I had to go through; they helped me find myself; the TRUE ME! They helped me learn the qualities I would need to be a stronger and better person. Do not worry I will write about them soon.

Chow,

Jesse

P.B. Versus The "One"

Before I begin this will be a two piece topic, the first piece shall discuss the different variations in the thought process of these two beliefs while the second piece will be discussing when a person should get into a relationship and the prerequisites I see that are needed as a foundation to a happy and successful relationship.The second piece will be entitled "Prerequisites to a P.B.". With that being said here is part one.

Nope not peanut butter at least that is not what we will be discussing today. Instead Pair Bonding versus the "One" and how perspective changes depending on which one you believe in. Perspective is more than just your thoughts on this though as the thoughts you harbor in your mind change the way you act and speak which ends up changing people's reactions to you.


Pair bonding is the belief that through out this world there are many individuals of whom you are attracted to and can have a solid happy relationship with. These people come and go at random times and it is you and that person who decide if it works or not. It all depends on if you two are willing to make it the content happiness that it can be.

While the "One" is the belief that there is only one specific person out there for you and that fate and destiny are in control of it. Or maybe even someone's god will make sure that the cards land in your hand.


Personally pair bonding is the only option that makes any sense whatsoever. Come on now has fate, destiny, or even god, ever got you to where you wish to be? That school you wanted to go to? That girl you wanted to date? That concert you wanted to see? That job you wanted to have? Or any of the other possible variations of this question that could be asked?


FUCK NO

It takes work! Everything takes work and effort as without any initiative why would you be handed the experience to make you a better person, someone who evolves and can adapt?

I do believe that everyone has experienced the "One" as we are bred by our parents and the media to think this way.

Now that we have an explanation of the two different beliefs let me explain an average relationship in both cases from beginning to break up.

The "One" relationship would consist of the two participants being extremely needy as they both believe that they are always to be in each others lives. It is possible that this relationship would include a lot of hypocrisy in such a way that one partner would be able to do more things than the other. Over time the fighting would get ridiculous however due to the participants' belief systems the two of them would endure this pain for a long period of time. Sooner or later the straw would break the camel's back as the constant fighting and unhappiness would lead to one of the two participants snapping and deciding that it is no longer worth it. And when this relationship ends both parties will go into a huge downfall of negativity as what they believed to be right had just been flushed down the toilet.


A Pair bonding relationship on the other hand is on a more sociological wavelength of thought as both participants know that there are other people out there that can also join with them to build a complete content relationship. Due to this they look at each other as equals and put in the effort needed to keep one another happy. If this relationship stopped being happy on either person's side then it would be discussed and if the happiness did not go up it would end rather quickly. This would happen as the unhappy person would know that nothing had changed and that there were other options out there to be happy with. After the breakup both parties would be awkward and saddened but their belief systems would not be crushed.

Which Perspective Sounds Better to YOU?

Stuck

Well it was another awesome day as always and I was heading home from running a Circuit. It did not take me long and I even got to enjoy the brisk air on my face as I walked to my apartment. Making my way inside all I could think about was anything and everything as I was so exhausted and wanted to keep my mind off of this thought process.


And then it happens...


Now if any of you have read Elek's blog then you will know that Calgary is known for over priced places that come with practically nothing. Believe me when I say nothing is included I mean nothing; even maintenance is not included. And this is how I ended up stuck in an elevator for an hour and a half... again!

This time it was so late that I was trapped in solitary confinement and had no one to socialize with. Due to this I needed to find some way to keep me entertained so that I did not fall asleep on the elevator. This is where my phone came in extremely handy as I am a technological handicap to say the least. So I figured might as well learn some more about it try and make myself more efficient and productive with this tool. Instead of achieving that; I found an interesting contraption that I hope others have on their phone as well.

The contraption I am about to explain is known as "My Words" and is a device that saves all of the words that you use in your texts that did not exist in the phone's dictionary prior to you using it. And as I read through these words I laughed my ass off and so I hope you enjoy them as much as I do:

1)Anal


2)Aphrodite


3)Asshole


4)Bastards


5)Batch


6)bday


7)Bikini


8)Bitch


9)Blah


10)Chickaboos


11)Chodes


12)Chow


13)Clit


14)Confuckled


15)Crap


16)Cum


17)Deepthroat


18)Douchebag


19)Dipshit


20)Fiesty


21)Freaking


22)Fuck


23)Fucked


23)Fuckfest


24)Fucking


25)Gayness


26)Goofball


27)Gstring


28)Jackass


29)Kinky


30)Kool


31)Kopy


32)Kutey


33)Matress


34)Meh


35)Mermaids


36)Missy


37)Narnia


38)Nite


39)Nudes


40)Nympho


41)Pringles


42)Pua


43)Pussy


44)Ruckus


45)Sarge


46)Scriggler


47)Scrigglers


48)Secretary


49)Sex


50)Shithead


51)Shutup


52)Skullfucking


53)Skitzo


54)Tantra


55)threesome


56)Timmie's


57)Tits


58)Wakey


59)Whore


60)YAY!




Chow,



Jesse