I am Happy to announce that Charisma Concept will be running a circuit in Montreal, August 22 through 24th-2008.

Let me start by saying that Charisma Concept focuses on natural abilities and inner game. With pick up being every where now a days, any hot girl that you wish to approach will have heard the routines, set yourself aside. We are all Individuals and we have different aspects to our personality and this is the way it should be. Learn how to show your best side in every situation.

Game is not just about woman; please understand that this is highly essential to understand. If you judge your life or define yourself and start basing your self-image on your success with women you will bring yourself in a downward spiral. There are many different pieces to your life and YOU must focus on ALL OF THEM.

With that being said, Charisma Concept is coming to Montreal. Let me inform you that we are a company that believes in personal guidance and one on one teaching. This is why there are limited spots so if you are interested get it done, Give ERR shit.

Both Zip and myself will be there; ready to bring you to the next level of social skills!

For information Zip or myself.

Zip@charismaconcept.com

thesaint@charismaconcept.com

A question

A question

Ring! School is out and I am in an extremely good mood as I am pretty sure that I just aced one of my tests. Hop in the car turn on the tunes and I am on my way.

Shit! Rush hour, this is going to take a while; kool; cannot change it so might as well enjoy it. It is a break that was given to me; extra time for relaxation. Let my thoughts ponder and plan the rest of the day.

Get home and it is time to hop on the computer and reconnect with the international world. Tons of new emails and information to read when I come across an email from a guy who lives far far away and that I have never talked to or heard of before. He is asking for advice on this girl that he is working on. Now normally I would not even answer something like this as I have a million other questions to get to but he gave me so many details and was willing to throw it all on the line and see what happened. And that I respected which lead me to making a reply.

" Hey,

Sorry to bother you, I need advice from a "community expert" and you seem like you know your stuff. Sorry - I'm being extremely presumptuous assuming that you are going to give it to me but I thought I may as well try. If you do give me some advice thanks SO much and if you don't no worries!

I have not really used game, or really had to. I go out to places like _____ where the girls are so easy it seems like one has to make an effort to get rejected. Last week in fact I was in that very place. I got a fair amount of action but I missed a great opportunity with an unbelievably hot HB10, and now I think its gonna take game to f-close her when I return this Saturday. If you've got the time I would really appreciate your advice on how to go about doing so using game, with some useful routines perhaps.

The Story So Far:

1st Night

I see her walking back from the loo, guy trying to put his arms around her. I glare at him, he runs off. She puts her arms around me and says
HB: Do you want to come and meet my friends in this club?
Me: No gotta get back to mine. Find you in the club later?
HB: Sure look for me, I'll be waiting

Forgot about her

2nd Night

I run into her again, and promise to find her in the club.

I forget again.

3rd Night

I see her in club and she comes over and says hi, but then my friends drag me away.

4th Night

I remember her and what an unbelievable opportunity this actually is.

I see her at the bus stop with some 19 year old friend of her brothers. She is drunk. He wants her to go home. I persuade her to come to the club with us to the anger of the guy. She gets turned away at the door and I make a massive fuss to the bouncers. Now the guy is really annoyed, he says hes not interested in her and that I can get to know her on another night. I go away. I see her again in the loo, we kiss on the cheek and I think about moving in to properly kiss. She then says bye and runs off. I then see the guy and ask for her number and he refuses.


5th Night

Someone taps me on my shoulder its her. Shes really friendly and with one of her friends. I make some jokes about the other night that go down well. I see her again in the club briefly and we say hi. Then I see 19 year old guy trying to dance with her for ages. She eventually pulled away resisting him and left. I saw the guy and the bar and he was bizarrely friendly.

I think my main problem is that I haven't got to know her properly. Are there any routines or methods that you would suggest to lead to f-closing?

Thanks so much and sorry for wasting your time,

C"

And so I reply.....

Hey, How are you?

It is funny normally I would not put a huge ounce of energy into
something like this but as you have given me so much input and details
into your situation I will give you my perception and how I would go
about it from here.

Let me start by saying this girl definitely likes you and the fact that
you guys kept missing each other led her to believe that you are very
busy and thus far an important person. Let me explain in a simpler
analogy, when you order something; you must put down a deposit. That is where you are you have a small piece of this interaction going on. You do not get the prize until it is all paid for in full.

Yes you and her are seeing each other out; and both are thinking about each other but does she feel safe? If she was showing you her naked body all of her slightest imperfections would she be sure that you would accept her and not throw her down the drain? As men genetically, and
socially we are raised not to let our comfort effect our power, that we are supposed to show through territory and ownership. This is why so many men who are insecure look for that gorgeous girl that they can hold as a trophy.

She needs to be able to let loose and be herself, through experiences
with you as evidence that you will not abandon her or hurt her. Not the
minor little things that you have had up to now, instead a deep level
connection. serious topics that just push your interaction into a full
rotation. You must make her understand that you are into her for more
than sex and that you have good reasons to be into her, her personality.

Now how shall we move on from here?

Honestly, I do not believe in routines, they are so out dated! I believe
in letting things flow while having an understanding of social concepts.
You need to get into an intellectual conversation with this young lady.
You need to find commonalities that will bring you and her closer. Think
about any friends that you have; things start out as being fun and then
over time you move into deeper conversations if your morals, ethics, and
beliefs match you become closer friends if not you become acquaintances.
All you are trying to do is fast track the bonding time, this means while
discussing topics that bring you closer together, you will throw in
touching so that she becomes comfortable with this at the same time.

Ideas to get on this topic are twenty questions, you ask then she asks a
question each of you getting twenty.

Truth or Dare to insert the deep level without moving away from the attractive and fun qualities. GET out of the BAR, you cannot always see her here, this will only hinder your progress as you have so many things to compete with, including: her friends, the music, other guys, bouncers, booze, and more. You want her to get with you, this means you two have to be alone, so get her alone.

Find out about her, let her find out about you and show her that you find her amazing and that is why she is lucky enough that you want to connect with her. You want her to feel the best pleasures that she has ever felt.


Wish you all the best, keep me informed.

New BREED

Repetition is great, when it is used properly! The act of saying something over and over, again and again is a great way to emphasize something.

In math it was whatever you do to one side most be done to the other.

In English it was i before e, except after C.

Acronyms, rhymes and other mental tools are used to help us in daily life learn everything quicker, while keeping it locked in our memory.

So what is the issue then? Ever heard the following?

"Always be alpha"

"Don't be needy"


I am willing to bet that you have heard of at least one of the above two, if not both of them. Now the problem comes as groups are emphasizing the radical sides of the spectrum. Being alpha is wicked as it helps you get the things that you want, when you want. At the same time if you are always alpha you will just end up being disliked or given that dick notation.

Beta..... and ..... Neediness

Beta is a word that was used to describe students grades, beta meant that the student was in the middle, coming after alpha and before last places; gamma. Beta is not only perfect for many circumstances but needed. As is neediness if you never show a need for anyone they will not give anything in return as the participants in your interaction will feel unappreciated.

Alright so some words and thoughts, here is some proof expanded.

I will start with any relationship, think of your mom or sister or dad.

Now if you were to always be in control of any one of these three your relationship would be shit. Either you would be disliked for your arrogance and always having to have the last word put in or your mom, sister or dad would never be able to live. Then what is the purpose to breathe? Tell me do you argue over every minor detail with your family? Doubt it. When there is a topic or issue that is worth discussing this is when you should speak up. Your time is valuable so do not waste it.

How about in your job, do you always confront your boss on every decision he makes? FUCK NO, because if you did he or she would fire your ass. No one wants to be told about everything they do wrong this is not good for self-esteem. Just the same no one likes a kiss ass either, you know the type of person who every time you do something is just completely complimenting you on every aspect of your action.

And worst of all the RELATIONSHIP:

All these guys have been given the material and they are running around spitting this canned material their new identity. Awesome now people have a placebo to meet girls, well at least a belief that anyone can talk to a girl. A girl is no longer that terrifying thing that makes the guys heart beat and sends him into an anxiety attack. Problem is that even if a guy is successful with canned material, it is not him or his personality and when he meets a quality girl he cannot keep her. Why? "Be Alpha" Damn it be alpha when needed if she is some one that you dig than you must be able to show her this otherwise this will only end poorly. Think about getting to know anyone you can't put in all the effort and she can't be the only investor either; it takes two to tango.

Let's Dance...............

We are in the third generation of pick-up, that means that we must evolve and try to be better than our predecessors. I have never been a fan of canned material as that is not who I am, or will ever be. Personally I teach that "Game" is not what you adapt to however you adapt it to your personality. I also totally negate the statements of a girl being higher than anyone, using "Negs" to lower her to your level, Fuck that we are all equal this is not the 1950's. I bleed red and so does every other person out there, I breathe air and so does everyone else, the only difference is my traits. My positives and negatives make me who I am, and I love that cause I rOck!

So where does that leave us? Enough of the radical movements, just like anything in life balance is needed. I am a new breed the perfect equilibrium between Alpha and Beta, I am Delta. I control everything in my life and can influence others but only if I feel that it is necessary. I choose my battles and not over oil, but over the sacrifice, and the energy put in. If the effort that I put in is worth what I believe will be the final result, then I shall take the time to advance in this challenge.

I will talk to anyone to see what they are about but if I am not enjoying myself, I will not stay in a set. It is not worth it I live only once and I have no regret as I went and had an interaction but I did not enjoy it, so I excused myself. I will not date a girl because its stable, I love the ups and downs life is a roller coaster, I am here for the ride! Will you join me?

It is all about you finding the balance of Alpha and Beta, the finale of DELTA.

DELTA, Join the SORORITY?

It's not what you say, but how you say it!

Hey, How we all doing?

It is Saturday June seventh and we are heading to cowboys, Disturbed's new cd has come out so I need to drive and listen to my tunes and get ready for the night. The visualization of me walking through the club everybody looking and noticing that I am having a wicked time. I listen to my tonality in these sets and watch my body language, evaluating myself in my mind. Now I am here and it is time to rock it out or at least that is what I thought.

Cowboys is having some promotional gathering and due to this the line is at least an hour wait, why waste our time? Discuss going elsewhere, new destination, Snatch. Back in the car repeat visualization, time to have some fun.

Guess what? It is dead, everyone is discussing where to go now when I say lets just go have some fun all we need is us.

Start off on the dance floor to get some of the newer boys loose, telling everyone "make a big fool out of yourself and have some fun".While we are dancing, proximity appears left right and center so everyone starts opening sets and dancing with some girls. Now I am hot and bothered need some water and some fresh air, so I exit. Wagesaus joins me.

Walking back to the dance floor we open a 2 set>>>>>

S> What are you celebrating?
Her> Nothing.
S> "happy Saturday"
H> "Ya lets go with that."
S> "How long have you two known each other?"
H>"2 months."
S> " and you are already bar buddies?"
H> "Ya she is awesome."
S> "Did I introduce you two Elek and scuglass?"
H> "No."

I pick her up so that Wagesaus can be in isolation and introduce her to everyone, explaining that "she wants a tramp stamp tattoo"
H> Hell no, I want something original. (she playfully punches me)
I retaliate by punching her ever so gently and using konica's "next time it is right in the box" and add in "so stop the violence"

I see that Wagesaus is exiting and know that I need to move her.

S> We're going where its quieter.
Lead her to the smoke pit

S> Are you ticklish?
H> No.
S> You are a terrible liar (as I tickle her).
S> How old are you?
H> Guess.
S> I do not do that guessing thing. I have a kid sister so I get enough games with her.
H> 24, and you?
S> Guess.
H> Thats not fair.
S> I never said it was (wink).
H> 23.
S> 21. Have you ever played the Wii? (Setting up for the pull)
H> Ya, I own one.
S> Are you serious? I'm going to make you look so bad when we play.
H> Um, no. I'm gonna win.
S> Sure whatever you say. So, what were your favorite games from Nintendo and Genisis?
H> Sonic, blah blah...
S> You are losing points now.

Another girl jumps in.
G2> Are you talking about video games?
S> Hell ya. Old school ones.
G2> Have you ever played ________________________
S> No.
H> No.
G2> You have to try it.
S> Thanks, lets go inside.

Find the rest of the guys in set and my target and I stand beside them.
S> We're having a staring contest.
H> I suck at them.
S> You're even worse against me.
Snap my fingers (she blinks).

Through my intuition, I can tell that I can kiss her now, but decide to leave it and let the tension build up.

H> I have to go to the bathroom.
S> Ok, have fun I guess.
H> You will be here?
S> If you're lucky.

Jump into another set. End up getting smelt and groped. Wagesaus announces he's going to leave. I ask him to stick around, knowing that if my target comes back getting groped will not help my situation. As a good wind, he stays until we assess the situation. My target reappears.
S> Lets go play some Wii.
H> Not now, I'm here with friends and I do not want to go home with some random.
S> Wow. I can not believe you could call me that. Thats a low blow.
She grabs me with a big hug.
S> Who are you even here with?
H> All my friends are over here.
S> Well introduce me. Its called manners.
H> Ya sure.

I get introduced when JPizzle comes running in and says Konica is outside and in trouble. This ended up working beautiful as I do not even have her number and I am gone without even saying goodbye. This shows that my friends are a really important part of my life and we are all loyal. Turns out that JPizzle blew it out of proportion and Konica just wanted a ride.
S> Dude, I'm probably pulling so just pay cover again and Scuglass can give you a ride home.
K> But I told my set that I had to go as I work tomorrow and there is a dude in a suit that is getting in my way.
S> Tell your target that you made a mistake and that you work next Sunday. As per the guy, we can deal with it.

Konica's set walks out. Konica starts talking to his target. JPizzle on his. While Scott and I see the suit guy and another girl from the set. Suit guy sends girl 1 to grab girl 2 from JPizzle and says "sorry bud." Now JPizzle should've done something here instead of giving up. Now suit guy sends girl 2 to grab girl's target, so she walks back to suit guy and he says "do not let the first guy who has a cock have you."

Time to shine, I jump in.
S> Damn man, I respect the way you look after these girls.

JPizzle and Scuglass switch spots with suit guy so they are talking to the girls while he is talking to me.
S> So what's your name bud?
sg> ________________
S> Cool man. I'm Jesse. So how do you know these girls?
sg> I went to school with them.
S> Nice. Now let me inform you; you are a good guy and so are they. I guarantee it.

Konica's target talks to sg.
KT> You work here?
sg> Sorta.
KT> Can you get him in?
sg> Does he have ID?
KT> Yup.
sg> Fine, but you owe me one.

Konica gets in and I talk to sg a little more until I know that the boys have it under control and now I'm back to my set.
S> Look, I'm leaving. We're going to play some Wii. Are you coming?
H> I'm innocent.
S> You play innocent, but I see right through you. (Make out with her). Are you joining me?
H> I don't know.
S> You know you want to.
H> I do, but we just met and I do not just want that one night thing.
S> Ya we just met, but if I was an asshole, you wouldn't be talking to me. Who said anything about a one night stand? Lets go play some Wii. Trust is earned. I promise to keep you safe if you keep me safe. (I hold out my pinky finger for a pinky swear and she puts hers up.)
S> So you are coming.
H> Ya.
S> Okay, well I'm going to grab everyone else.
H> Okay, I'll wait here.

I go and grab everyone and tell them to meet me outside.
S> You ready.
H> Ya, but my friends are looking after me and have questions.
F1> Where do you live?
S> Scenic Acres.
F1> Whats your address?
S> ___________________
F2> What is your address?
S> __________________ (Same as before)
F1> What did he tell you? (To F2)
F2> _________________
S> Look I will text you my address and I have to say mad respect. You guys care for her as much as I do. (To F2)

Exit. Walk outside and apologize to the boys and explain that I got interrogated.

Get home. Give her a tour and then we play Wii. We play for an hour. Her beating me for half and me beating her for the other half.
S> This sucks, I die in one hit when I have a 300% handicap.
H> I'm loving it.
S> Okay there Macdonald's.

We lay on the couch and start making out. Both my lets crack ten minutes in.
S> That's a sign that this couch is too small for the both of us. Would you be comfy moving to the bed?
H> (Silence)
S> This is one of those questions that you are not going to answer.
H> Exactly.
S> Get up. (Pull her up)

Open door to my room slightly and door to living room slightly.
S> I shall close my eyes and you can pick one.
I open my eyes and of course she has not picked one.
S> You women are nothing but trouble. If I take you back to the couch, I am a chicken shit that cannot take control and if I carry you to my room I'm an asshole that likes sex.

Pick her up and carry her to my bed. And from here on in it would be indecent of me to give you more details.


Jesse

"Dark Spot"

Hey, How we all doing?

The following is my first response to http://zentransformation.blogspot.com/ , Ciaran writes about why he is leaving RSD and the pick up community. I will be doing a second post on this topic as it brings great interest to me and I think with more time I can spread extra knowledge on the situation.

I have spent many hours discussing and thinking on this topic and honestly have not written any of it down as the uncertainty is there in a full throttle way. Seeings as Dave has decided to write about his feelings towards this topic I feel it to be necessary to reply as to where I stand.

There was a time when I had no doubts what so ever towards this community and I believed in it more than anything I had ever believed in before. Yet now there is this huge burden of being numbed by the world, the whole romance, true love, meeting the right woman completely gone. The magic is long and lost things no longer just happen I have practiced my social skills thus I know when an interaction will go good or bad, I can predict how it will end and that makes it quite boring.

Pride fucks with all of us, I remember back in the day when I first started, making out with 12 girls in a night and not caring about a single one of them. It has lost all of the excitement. It was a hard battle and it sucked you could not open then you could but they would not hook and then you could and each time you got to that next step the high was more then before and you were rewarded for your efforts. And now there is no real answer just total uncertainty nothing but a muddy fog and the worst part is that there are few people in this community whom will speak publicly on this topic. I only know of Style and Ciceran and I definitely wish that more people would voice their opinions.

Once you have seen the world for what it is, can you ever close your eyes and ignore what you have seen? And if you can is it the right action to take? How can you ignore what you have seen, I have seen things that in my opinion are just as bad as murder. A murder happens in anger or self defense, I have had woman with kids, husbands, boyfriends, people whom they said they loved and would never hurt, people that they had bonds with and through that all away selfishly for their own pleasure. How can you omit this from your mind?

Alright so what are the options, drop off the map ignore seduction and believe that you will meet the right woman through the hand of god. Has god or some other higher power helped you with your education job even buying your house? and if you do this and end up meeting a woman whom you think is "the ONE" will you end up being another piece of the divorce statistic?

Or do you continue on with your mission to gain social skills and meet more people so that you have the highest chances to find the perfect girl? Even though if you do find her you will have to lie or not tell her about the things you have done otherwise she will run. Can you live with the guilt of knowing that you have omitted a huge part of your life, and that you have hidden your true self?

I have met a lot of great people in this community and a few whom I now consider my closest friends and for that I am very grateful. As someone who got very deep into this and wanted to teach I know find myself not only questioning my own involvement but if helping others get into this community is a moral thing to do. The worst part is both options are counterproductive, I do not drink unless for special occasions anymore and a lot of good things have happened but the numbness and disgust in peoples actions is huge.

Now I know that everyone in this section believes that having other things in your life is needed and I totally agree but even if you are doing this in moderation will you end up at this same result? Everything we have been taught as people growing up in this society has been erased and due to this I personally think that either way you will end up finding peoples actions ridiculous and repulsive.

RM discusses trust and I have discussed this through and through with many people and I wish to express that this far I only have one opinion that I cannot argue. Previously I wanted to get married and have kids and now there is no way in hell. After witnessing what I have seen I cannot put myself in that kind of position, there was a time when marriage was for good. That is no longer the case and why would I want to bring children into a world that is so Fucked up. RM quotes an author who said "if a woman is happy with her relationship their is nothing anyone can do to seduce her" and I would agree. The issue is that it is human nature that the grass is always greener on the other side, life is a roller coaster with ups and downs and this holds true to a relationship. All it takes for one low where you and your girlfriend wife or fiance get into a fight and you guys run different ways she goes to the bar with her friends and some young stud like you once were talks to her and makes her problems disappear. Her illogical and emotional side go to town and she is having so much fun, that she has not received in forever.All attention is on her, and the hatred toward you for taking her for granted lead her to giving in to her desires and being unfaithful. Adam and Eve, had everything yet they still ate the apple.

The only point that I have not been able to argue on this discussion is that of a leap of faith and I only know one person who has said he could do this. After seeing how deceitful and selfish woman are can you leave yourself open to getting hurt, being miserable and totally wrong about her?

Most people got in this as they wanted to be able to control our situations and now we want things to just happen, risky and unpredictable. Question is what is the right move now?