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Hey, How we all doing?
Now to the question everyone has been asking; how did I join the community?
I was a Natural for seven years.As a teen that was all I did party, socialize, and fornicate. It was a blast and is the reason that I believe I was able to progress so much faster than most puas. I had already had the confidence from previously annd the experiences that many men did not enjoy through out their whole entire life. These seven years rocked and taught me so much about socializing with women and how to react to keep social situations moving in a direction in which I was happy with.
Then it happened; I had found her; the one! I swear so many introduction stories sound like this it is always after a relationship that we start looking for answers. Well at least in chode days. In the end I got into a relationship that lasted 2 years and even though I knew six months in that she was not the right girl for me; I decided that I would wait until I found another girl before I left. Just got lazy; the downfall of my game consistent sex. Everyone told me not too get in this spot but I did anyways. Everyone was right and I was wrong learned a lot and am thankful for this experience as it is really one of the main variables that got me to where and who I am today.
It was crazy; I did not really love her and I knew that yet it was so awkward not having her around. Even though she was insecure I had just gotten so used to dealing with her that it was my definition of reality. A month of awkwardness and I was invited to a New Years Party; got drunk and the old me reappeared for a night.This proved to me I was good in social circles and so that was where I played. Problem was that when my friends and I went to the clubs or even lounges I saw girls that I used to be able to invite into my life and it frustrated me.
I continued playing in my social circle and doing well until sex came into the picture and then I was more needy, did I say needy, than a CRACK ADDICT!This spectacular event repeated itself three times in four months.And so my brother stepped in giving me the game; in hopes that I would get back to my old self.
Read it in a night! I went to town going out every day and night to socialize; many mistakes and many experiences so much knowledge just flowing into me I ate it up like a kid and a video game.In between this and where I am today many big things happened I will just list a few as I do not wish to make this too lengthy:
-Mehow asking me to teach for him
-Circuits all over the world
-Hanging out with Tenmagnet and many other good guys
-Having taught for 2 years straight
-Tons of CLIENTS
-LETTING MANY AMAZING PEOPLE JOIN ME ON MY JOURNEY
And that is how I got into Social Interactions; if you have any specific questions that were not answered please post a comment and I will do a follow up.
Chow,
Jesse (aka The SAINT)
thesaint@charismaconcept.com
Everything we know is learned; all of our habits good or bad. A huge percentage of our actions and beliefs were influenced from our parents. Ever sat down after saying something and realized that it was exactly the same as your mom or dad used to? Admit it or not everyone has. Most of our individual traits come from our parents and a mixture of what the social world has taught us. School, experiences and of course the media combined with our parents influence explains what we believe we deserve and what we believe we can achieve.
Personally I have had an abnormal life but then again who has not. Every life is different and there really is no such thing as normal just an average range of people and what they believe is acceptable. We all have insecurities and doubts that is normal; no one is flawless.
With out reading on any further please accept the following things:
I am not writing this for any emotion from you what so ever please save your pity, sympathy, compassion, and anything else that you could possibly feel for the next person you welcome into your life. I am writing this as a way to try and inspire you to question your beliefs and views of the world.
Let me see some of the things that happened while I was growing up that definitely should have fucked me right up. My parents were always fighting and I remember that to the point of no return when I turned six my mom ran away. Now at this time I had no idea where my mom had gone or why all I knew was I wanted my mom. Soon after this things became a lot worse my alcohol abusing father pushed it to the next level.
It was an average night and I had not seen my mom in what felt like years so I snuck into my little brother's room to hang out with someone. I woke him up he was three at the time; we were having a ball giggling as I tickled him. After a while he grew tired of me I had woken him up from his sleep and so he started bawling when I did not leave him to rest. Much to my dismay this woke my dad up.
He stormed into the room yelling "What the fuck is going on here; I am trying to sleep" to which I replied in a sad voice " I am sorry just just wanted to play with my my brother" as I shook in fear. He grabbed me by the ear and while dragging me with one hand smacked the living shit out of me. I remember trying to run off so that he could not hurt me and then he would just throw a bottle at my head. After I had bled for long enough and had promised to say that "I got stung by a bee" I was thrown into my bed and left in peace.
When I woke up the next day I did not even notice that I was covered in bruises; I was just happy my brother was not harmed in any way. I grabbed my stuff and went running off to school as quickly as possible. Confused and unsure of why everything was happening I wanted to get away and hoped that school would help liberate me. It did not; ten minutes in and I was sent to the principals office; where first she asked me to explain what had happened to me.
"I was stung by a bee and had an allergic reaction" was my exact response and I totally thought she bought it when I was sent back to class.
Ten minutes later.....
I have been called down to the office again but this time when I walk into the principal's station not only is she there but two policemen as well. I repeated my statement over and over again to the policeman whom obviously did not believe me. After about two hours of this though they stopped pushing it realizing that I would not fold. Still to this day I am unsure if I did this to protect and help my father or out of the fear that he had instilled in me as a young child.
Now I could go on sharing thousands of stories like this but I do not wish to make you read all of that and I would like to get to the main point so the following are other important pieces that happened to help you fully understand what I am trying to explain.
Probably three years later my grandparents (Saints by the way, the most amazing two people ever) took my brother and I in. This was a much better living situation than prior but added a new element that I had not seen yet. I was completely different from every other kid; I lived with my grandparents. And due to this had much different rules, expectations and definitely interactions.
My mother ended up being an addict as well but to a prescribed medication known as morphine; a opium( same plant as used for heroin) extraction pain killer.
A few other quotes to expand more
" You know what I should have done I should have burned you when you came out of your dumb mother's cunt"
" Come here you little fuck I will put you down like the dog that you are! NOW come here you piece of shit"
Now from the above hopefully you can see that I should be one of those low self-esteem; un-confident scared types; definitely not the case. I believe I am one of the most content people on this planet especially when it comes to who I am and what I believe in.
Why...................................?
I went through a lot. So have you and anyother person in this life and that is why I began searching for answers and I realized that my parents actions were influenced by everyone else. And so they did the best they could with what they were taught. I had to choices hate them forever or say thank you for trying and decide to do better for my self.
And that is what I did; I started writing down everything that I thought I believed in or valued and then went looking to others for their belief and value systems. From here I was able to confront my thoughts with other ideologies and thought processes until mine were completely secure. Now this was not a daily procedure as every time you think you have it right something new gets thrown into the mix and makes you double check everything that you have compiled thus far. Especially due to the fact that it is never ending everday more people have new ideas and thoughts on how a person should be but the truth of the matter is this is a good thing. With out the confrontation of thoughts, ideologies; methodologies; and philosophy of your life your true belief and value system will never be in control.
And so I ask you to question everything you know double check it and make sure that you have valid reason for keeping the pieces that you hold dear to your self; leading you to confidence in your own personal mind. So that one day you may be as happy as I.
Hey, How are we all doing?
Alright gentleman time to book some time off; on Saturday September the twentieth Charisma Concept will be doing a seminar and tour in Edmonton. We are going to be discussing opening and mid-game from a natural point of view.
Burgundy, Djmex, and Elek will be speaking for sure so far and that is only the start.
The following is what will be happening:
Meet up on Saturday, September 20 at Hudson's Taphouse (subject to change) and the Seminar will start at 5 pm.
Where Djmex, Burgundy, Elektro and myself will be speaking.After the Seminar which will include a Q & A session, you guys will be hitting up the clubs. The plan is to hit three different clubs after the Seminar, this will be up to you guys to decide. Whichever clubs have the most votes from members will be the ones selected. If you're going to be attending please select your three favorite clubs.
Hopefully you guys love the union, cause that place rocks!
I can fully guarantee that this will be a blast no matter what your skill level or knowledge when you come out with a group this motivated even if you only open one set you will learn lots and be truly inspired. As of right now Elektro and myself will both be speaking but I am sure that other Calgary dedicated members will be coming up and so they can help you out as well. This is a great way to help you see the lifestyle as well I know that not many people in Edmonton are pushing natural and so I would like to show you guys the other side of the coin. No gimmicks and no routines just finding yourself and projecting your best traits and qualities.
Cannot wait to see you guys there.
Email me if you have any questions thesaint@charismaconcept.com
Jesse
Alright so I am out with my girl as it is her last night in town; and so I have booked the night off to make sure that she can have the best experience possible. Now there are a lot of good times but there is one special event that sticks out in my mind. Buying her a drink.
Not for the fact that I bought her a drink but we are standing up against the bar when a young man whom I will dub "Mr.perseverance" decides he is going to join us. He walks in and starts talking to my lady friend saying " Wow I knew as soon as I saw your eyes that you were the one for me. Am I the one for you? ". Now I am quite enjoying this as I am sitting here looking at every different thing he is doing wrong when he decides to repeat himself.
And so I step in "Hey I am Jesse" to which Mr.p replies " Is she the one for you " I smile and try not to burst out in laughter while saying " are you having a good night? " where he responds "Yes" and the finish " than I suggest you continue it" waving my hand. He walks away.
Honestly what is this world coming to; really this was shocking to me there were no manners what so ever. I understand most guys are intimidated of the male in a set and this is why an afc will not talk to him but if you are walking up to random strangers introduce yourself to everyone and on his way out he does not say good night or see you soon or anything just accepts death. Come on gentlemen let us lead these people in the right direction; let our actions inspire and motivate others.
And the line that he used I was really in complete disbelief I mean if you are drunk why would you need such a terrible line? You should not as when you drink it should just be "in the moment" and that is why most people who drink fail with their social skills.
Side note> Mr.p got blown out of every set and I saw him in over ten.
Next time you think you had a bad night just remember it could be worse you could be Mr.p. Be proud that you are at least recognizing your attributes and working on the ones that can be better and will help you succeed.
