A question

A question

Ring! School is out and I am in an extremely good mood as I am pretty sure that I just aced one of my tests. Hop in the car turn on the tunes and I am on my way.

Shit! Rush hour, this is going to take a while; kool; cannot change it so might as well enjoy it. It is a break that was given to me; extra time for relaxation. Let my thoughts ponder and plan the rest of the day.

Get home and it is time to hop on the computer and reconnect with the international world. Tons of new emails and information to read when I come across an email from a guy who lives far far away and that I have never talked to or heard of before. He is asking for advice on this girl that he is working on. Now normally I would not even answer something like this as I have a million other questions to get to but he gave me so many details and was willing to throw it all on the line and see what happened. And that I respected which lead me to making a reply.

" Hey,

Sorry to bother you, I need advice from a "community expert" and you seem like you know your stuff. Sorry - I'm being extremely presumptuous assuming that you are going to give it to me but I thought I may as well try. If you do give me some advice thanks SO much and if you don't no worries!

I have not really used game, or really had to. I go out to places like _____ where the girls are so easy it seems like one has to make an effort to get rejected. Last week in fact I was in that very place. I got a fair amount of action but I missed a great opportunity with an unbelievably hot HB10, and now I think its gonna take game to f-close her when I return this Saturday. If you've got the time I would really appreciate your advice on how to go about doing so using game, with some useful routines perhaps.

The Story So Far:

1st Night

I see her walking back from the loo, guy trying to put his arms around her. I glare at him, he runs off. She puts her arms around me and says
HB: Do you want to come and meet my friends in this club?
Me: No gotta get back to mine. Find you in the club later?
HB: Sure look for me, I'll be waiting

Forgot about her

2nd Night

I run into her again, and promise to find her in the club.

I forget again.

3rd Night

I see her in club and she comes over and says hi, but then my friends drag me away.

4th Night

I remember her and what an unbelievable opportunity this actually is.

I see her at the bus stop with some 19 year old friend of her brothers. She is drunk. He wants her to go home. I persuade her to come to the club with us to the anger of the guy. She gets turned away at the door and I make a massive fuss to the bouncers. Now the guy is really annoyed, he says hes not interested in her and that I can get to know her on another night. I go away. I see her again in the loo, we kiss on the cheek and I think about moving in to properly kiss. She then says bye and runs off. I then see the guy and ask for her number and he refuses.


5th Night

Someone taps me on my shoulder its her. Shes really friendly and with one of her friends. I make some jokes about the other night that go down well. I see her again in the club briefly and we say hi. Then I see 19 year old guy trying to dance with her for ages. She eventually pulled away resisting him and left. I saw the guy and the bar and he was bizarrely friendly.

I think my main problem is that I haven't got to know her properly. Are there any routines or methods that you would suggest to lead to f-closing?

Thanks so much and sorry for wasting your time,

C"

And so I reply.....

Hey, How are you?

It is funny normally I would not put a huge ounce of energy into
something like this but as you have given me so much input and details
into your situation I will give you my perception and how I would go
about it from here.

Let me start by saying this girl definitely likes you and the fact that
you guys kept missing each other led her to believe that you are very
busy and thus far an important person. Let me explain in a simpler
analogy, when you order something; you must put down a deposit. That is where you are you have a small piece of this interaction going on. You do not get the prize until it is all paid for in full.

Yes you and her are seeing each other out; and both are thinking about each other but does she feel safe? If she was showing you her naked body all of her slightest imperfections would she be sure that you would accept her and not throw her down the drain? As men genetically, and
socially we are raised not to let our comfort effect our power, that we are supposed to show through territory and ownership. This is why so many men who are insecure look for that gorgeous girl that they can hold as a trophy.

She needs to be able to let loose and be herself, through experiences
with you as evidence that you will not abandon her or hurt her. Not the
minor little things that you have had up to now, instead a deep level
connection. serious topics that just push your interaction into a full
rotation. You must make her understand that you are into her for more
than sex and that you have good reasons to be into her, her personality.

Now how shall we move on from here?

Honestly, I do not believe in routines, they are so out dated! I believe
in letting things flow while having an understanding of social concepts.
You need to get into an intellectual conversation with this young lady.
You need to find commonalities that will bring you and her closer. Think
about any friends that you have; things start out as being fun and then
over time you move into deeper conversations if your morals, ethics, and
beliefs match you become closer friends if not you become acquaintances.
All you are trying to do is fast track the bonding time, this means while
discussing topics that bring you closer together, you will throw in
touching so that she becomes comfortable with this at the same time.

Ideas to get on this topic are twenty questions, you ask then she asks a
question each of you getting twenty.

Truth or Dare to insert the deep level without moving away from the attractive and fun qualities. GET out of the BAR, you cannot always see her here, this will only hinder your progress as you have so many things to compete with, including: her friends, the music, other guys, bouncers, booze, and more. You want her to get with you, this means you two have to be alone, so get her alone.

Find out about her, let her find out about you and show her that you find her amazing and that is why she is lucky enough that you want to connect with her. You want her to feel the best pleasures that she has ever felt.


Wish you all the best, keep me informed.