Repetition is great, when it is used properly! The act of saying something over and over, again and again is a great way to emphasize something.
In math it was whatever you do to one side most be done to the other.
In English it was i before e, except after C.
Acronyms, rhymes and other mental tools are used to help us in daily life learn everything quicker, while keeping it locked in our memory.
So what is the issue then? Ever heard the following?
"Always be alpha"
"Don't be needy"
I am willing to bet that you have heard of at least one of the above two, if not both of them. Now the problem comes as groups are emphasizing the radical sides of the spectrum. Being alpha is wicked as it helps you get the things that you want, when you want. At the same time if you are always alpha you will just end up being disliked or given that dick notation.
Beta..... and ..... Neediness
Beta is a word that was used to describe students grades, beta meant that the student was in the middle, coming after alpha and before last places; gamma. Beta is not only perfect for many circumstances but needed. As is neediness if you never show a need for anyone they will not give anything in return as the participants in your interaction will feel unappreciated.
Alright so some words and thoughts, here is some proof expanded.
I will start with any relationship, think of your mom or sister or dad.
Now if you were to always be in control of any one of these three your relationship would be shit. Either you would be disliked for your arrogance and always having to have the last word put in or your mom, sister or dad would never be able to live. Then what is the purpose to breathe? Tell me do you argue over every minor detail with your family? Doubt it. When there is a topic or issue that is worth discussing this is when you should speak up. Your time is valuable so do not waste it.
How about in your job, do you always confront your boss on every decision he makes? FUCK NO, because if you did he or she would fire your ass. No one wants to be told about everything they do wrong this is not good for self-esteem. Just the same no one likes a kiss ass either, you know the type of person who every time you do something is just completely complimenting you on every aspect of your action.
And worst of all the RELATIONSHIP:
All these guys have been given the material and they are running around spitting this canned material their new identity. Awesome now people have a placebo to meet girls, well at least a belief that anyone can talk to a girl. A girl is no longer that terrifying thing that makes the guys heart beat and sends him into an anxiety attack. Problem is that even if a guy is successful with canned material, it is not him or his personality and when he meets a quality girl he cannot keep her. Why? "Be Alpha" Damn it be alpha when needed if she is some one that you dig than you must be able to show her this otherwise this will only end poorly. Think about getting to know anyone you can't put in all the effort and she can't be the only investor either; it takes two to tango.
Let's Dance...............
We are in the third generation of pick-up, that means that we must evolve and try to be better than our predecessors. I have never been a fan of canned material as that is not who I am, or will ever be. Personally I teach that "Game" is not what you adapt to however you adapt it to your personality. I also totally negate the statements of a girl being higher than anyone, using "Negs" to lower her to your level, Fuck that we are all equal this is not the 1950's. I bleed red and so does every other person out there, I breathe air and so does everyone else, the only difference is my traits. My positives and negatives make me who I am, and I love that cause I rOck!
So where does that leave us? Enough of the radical movements, just like anything in life balance is needed. I am a new breed the perfect equilibrium between Alpha and Beta, I am Delta. I control everything in my life and can influence others but only if I feel that it is necessary. I choose my battles and not over oil, but over the sacrifice, and the energy put in. If the effort that I put in is worth what I believe will be the final result, then I shall take the time to advance in this challenge.
I will talk to anyone to see what they are about but if I am not enjoying myself, I will not stay in a set. It is not worth it I live only once and I have no regret as I went and had an interaction but I did not enjoy it, so I excused myself. I will not date a girl because its stable, I love the ups and downs life is a roller coaster, I am here for the ride! Will you join me?
It is all about you finding the balance of Alpha and Beta, the finale of DELTA.
DELTA, Join the SORORITY?
Friday, July 18, 2008
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