I met Tenmagnet the last weekend and it was interesting to meet someone with like minded goals. While our outlooks on game itself were definitely different; credit where credits due; he was definitely a kool cat who does well with the ladies.
Actually it started on Thursday; he did a free seminar to help build awareness for the company he works for. His talk discussed the"elimination of flaking". After this discussion the room socialized and there were to many people for all of us to go out. Somehow, someway a group of us ended up out together where we chatted about our identitiesand shared stories.
Tenmagnet had to get up early and I had to teach so we had to end thenight. While saying goodbye however we exchanged numbers and figured we might go out on Sunday. On Sunday we ended up getting together and well talking about everything from pickup to hobbies. As always when great minds are put together they pick one an others brains. And so the question arouse "Why did you give me your number and decide to go out with me" to which Tenmagnet replied "Honestly your initiative". That was the main focus of the night.
When we discussed the new up and comers in the world of social dynamics it reappeared. Cajun who works with Tenmagnet and Konica who works with me have both become intensely good in short periods of time. And it comes down to the effort that both of these men put in to bettering themselves while not letting an ego blind the truth. The way these gentlemen give it everything they got to get all that they want is just inspiring. Yet they do not take it so seriously that it is no longer fun. They enjoy growing as people and are always finding more ways to do so.
With that one example being stated I urge you gentleman to truly realize that if you do not try you can never succeed. What is this try though; talking to a couple girls at a bar; is that life? Personally I do not believe so when I say try I mean give it your all in every aspect. Know that you have done anything possible to improve your life and others around you.Men and Women it does not matter socialize with everyone. Live and learn; question everything and find the answers that will give you inner peace. There are many men on forums all over the world who say they will learn this; many do not even make it a month; where is the commitment. Staying motivated is hard in anything but especially in a situation where you can be brought down to a new low and so I highly recommend that you write goals before you start your journey. Not just goals either what is it that you are in this for? What type of woman are you attracted to? Why? What qualities would she have? How would you and her differ? How would she act in situations? Just remind yourself what you are looking for.
Before a person can get anywhere he or she needs to know their final destination this is the same reason that before starting a business companies create a business plan; to help them understand what they need to do so that this company can be successful. Which is more important a business or your life? I would hope that your life is more important than any business and so I suggest that you look at the people who have enjoyed their journey and model their positive traits. Now this does not mean be them; it means add to who you are. Take their positives and combine them with the great person you already are.
P.s. Tenmagnet and Cajun are both teachers for Lovesystems,
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