Outlook of an Optimist

Life is what we make it.

Many people live daily in a routine, doing the same thing over and over again. With you reading this let me congratulate you on the will power and honesty to make yourself a better person. With all these changes you have made and your initiative to evolve as a man, you shall have an epic lifestyle. Days will be different, there will be ups and down but you have the power to sway any decision.

I listen to so many people who speak of their excitement in making changes and yet they are unwilling to accept the truth and remove the main component of one’s downfall, negativity especially through validation. When people look at the world in this way it is like wearing a pair of orange tinted glasses, the whole perception is different. This is why social conditioning consisting of one’s morals, beliefs, and experiences changes their interaction with society. If you put yourself in the “It cannot get worse” frame, then it definitely will not get better.

It hit me, a while back while in the driver's seat of my car. My solitary confinement, out drifting and just letting my thoughts ponder. I love to socialize and it is a ball but at the same time I need my space. I believe everyone does, an example is have you ever lived with a roomate or hung out with a close friend too often? Sooner or later you just need room. This does not mean you are not close or that something went wrong. Your just an individual. If you cannot love yourself, how wil others?

THEY WONT

Personally, I could not give a flying FUCK, I love who I am and the fact that I will get where I want. Everything in this life is at my feet, all I have to do is open the doors, and my destiny is in my control. I am truly exhilarated bringing others into my life, if and only if they can grasp that I do what I want when I want. What’s mine is mine because I earned it and if I feel that I need something else I will take that too. If we can intertwine and mesh together that is tight, if not then it cannot be right. No biggie, glad I got more experience.


Experience is the main reason that I am jotting this down today, the negativity of people seeking validation is sick. Do not get this wrong, I have done this a million times however it is on my conscious level of awareness and does not affect me in any way shape or form. Go to a venue and it is dead, how do you respond? Are you the person who vocally or even mentally figures that the night will suck? Or can you just kick back and let the epic lifestyle that you choose to live follow you everywhere you go?


In my opinion this is the best way to live, having a blast at all times. Yes there will be conflicts and confrontations but you choose the results. Without a positive mind state you will never be able to completely enjoy your life.

My grandfather once told me “Everything life gives us, is just, beautiful, so smile” and if I did not take these words to my heart I would not be who I am today.



Cheers,


Jesse